Do You Dare Call Yourself a Hero in Your Marriage?
Let’s be brutally honest. Everyone loves to think they’re doing fine in their marriage. You pay the bills, you show up for dinner, you post a smiling photo on Instagram—boom, you think you’re the perfect husband or wife. But here’s the deal: most people are lying to themselves. And if you don’t believe me, ask your spouse tonight: “Am I your hero?” Watch their eyes. If they hesitate, if they laugh it off, if they look away, you’ve got your answer. I’ve spent 50 years advising couples. Fifty years of hearing the same complaints: “He doesn’t listen.” “She doesn’t appreciate me.” “We’re more like roommates than partners.” I’ll tell you what’s missing—heroism. Not Hollywood heroism. Not flying capes. The kind that counts: showing up every single day as someone your spouse admires, respects, and trusts. Why Being a Hero Matters Marriage is not about surviving. It’s about winning—together. And in every winning team, there’s someone who steps up, who refuses to quit, who takes responsibility....